Understanding Your Worth: A Journey to Self-Discovery

Experiences in the Emergency Room

A few years ago, I received a call that would lead me to the emergency room. I was instructed to get there as quickly as possible because a helicopter was transporting a patient. I rushed down to meet the family who had already arrived. This was not a new experience for me; after twenty-five years in ministry, I was familiar with the emotional weight of such situations. Yet, even with my extensive background, I still felt those familiar butterflies in my stomach.

As I entered the waiting room, I could feel the tension in the air. It was a rainy and cold day, one that would linger in my memory. I held family members' hands while they expressed their frustration and helplessness. One family member exclaimed, "I feel like I should be doing something." I responded, "You are doing something. We're praying, we're waiting, and right now, that's what we can do." This prompted a thought about productivity; waiting can often feel unproductive, yet it is sometimes the most meaningful action we can take.

The Pressure of Productivity

In our fast-paced world, we often equate productivity with control. We like to produce results and have tangible outcomes. The instinct to be productive can overshadow the importance of patience and waiting. We set deadlines for ourselves and feel anxious when we cannot meet them. As we begin this new year, I invite you to pause and reflect on how you view your life, relationships, and self-worth. Much of this perception is shaped by our thoughts and choices.

Over the next few weeks, I hope to help you see yourself differently. Instead of harshly judging yourself for mistakes or shortcomings, I aim to provide a broader perspective—one that allows you to view yourself through a more compassionate lens.

A Higher Perspective

Imagine having a bird's-eye view of your life, akin to a modern car equipped with a 360-degree camera. This technology allows drivers to see their surroundings from above, offering clarity and perspective. I want to encourage you to adopt a similar view of your life. By seeing yourself as God sees you, you can start to appreciate your worth and potential.

As we kick off 2025, consider your spiritual life and how you can flourish. Jesus spoke of an abundant life—one filled with purpose and richness. Embrace the idea that God has grand plans for you, plans that extend beyond any labels or limitations society may impose.

Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes

Too often, we allow past experiences to dictate our self-worth. We internalize messages of inadequacy, leading us to believe we are not enough. However, the truth is that God views you with love and appreciation. You are His creation, and He sees you as good.

Let's reflect on Psalm 139, which beautifully captures this sentiment: "You made all the delicate inner parts of my body. You knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex. Your workmanship is marvelous." This passage reminds us that we are intricately designed by a loving Creator who values us immensely.

Breaking the Cycle of Negative Self-Perception

Many of us struggle to see ourselves as God sees us. We look in the mirror and focus on our flaws rather than our strengths. This habit can be detrimental to our mental health and spiritual growth. Instead of focusing on what we lack, we should practice gratitude for the life we have and the people around us.

Comparisons often lead to feelings of inadequacy. We find ourselves saying, "I don't have what she has," or "I'm not good enough." This negative self-talk can become a habit, just as good habits can. It’s essential to break this cycle and learn to appreciate ourselves as God does.

The Apostle Paul's Wisdom

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul provides profound insights into our identity in Christ. In Romans 8, he writes, "I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God's love." This powerful statement should resonate deeply with us. No matter our past mistakes or current struggles, God's love remains unwavering.

Paul continues, emphasizing that neither death nor life, angels nor demons, fears nor worries can separate us from God's love. This reassurance is crucial for anyone grappling with feelings of unworthiness. It reminds us that we are inherently valuable and loved, regardless of our circumstances.

Unconditional Love and Acceptance

Understanding that we are recipients of unconditional love is transformative. This love is not contingent upon our actions or achievements. God loves us in our best and worst moments. He sees our potential and encourages us to grow and thrive.

It’s vital to let this truth permeate our hearts and minds. Many of us acknowledge God's love in our heads but struggle to accept it in our hearts. We often think, "God loves everyone else, but not me." This mindset can limit our spiritual growth and hinder our ability to embrace our true selves.

Creating a New Narrative

To change how we view ourselves, we must create a new narrative. William James, a philosopher, once said, "The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another." We have the power to choose how we perceive ourselves and our circumstances.

God has endowed us with creativity and the ability to shape our lives. Although we cannot change the past, we can make conscious choices moving forward. Embrace the truth that you are loved, valued, and created for a purpose.

Conclusion: Embracing Your Identity in Christ

This week, I encourage you to reflect on your identity as a beloved child of God. Embrace the truth that you are wonderfully made and that nothing can separate you from His love. Recognize the lies that may be holding you back and choose to listen to the voice of truth instead.

As you navigate your day-to-day life, take a moment to breathe in the reality of God's love for you. Allow it to transform how you see yourself and how you interact with others. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Together, we can encourage one another to embrace our worth and live out the abundant life God has promised us.