Rediscovering Church: How to Get Back in the Habit

Life can pull us in countless directions, leaving little time for what truly matters. If you've drifted away from church, you're not alone. Many people find themselves in this situation, and the good news is that the path back is open and welcoming.

Why Return to Church?

  1. Community and Connection: We are created for community, and the church provides a unique space to connect with others who share similar life struggles and hunger for spiritual growth. This sense of belonging can be a powerful antidote to the isolation and drift that can occur when we try to go it alone. A church family offers encouragement, support, and a shared journey towards spiritual health.

  2. Worldview and Application: Your worldview shapes how you see and interact with the world. The church helps you explore and understand a Jesus-centered worldview, guiding you to live out your faith in a complex, ever-changing culture. You gain practical insights into applying biblical principles to everyday challenges through sermons, prayer groups, and meaningful conversations.

  3. Spiritual Coaching and Growth: Like any area of life, spiritual growth often benefits from guidance and mentorship. Church provides access to spiritual coaches and mentors who can offer wisdom, support, and encouragement. They can help you navigate life's complexities, make difficult decisions, and develop your leadership skills within a framework of faith.

  4. Serving and Impacting Your Community: The church empowers you to make a difference in your community. The church multiplies your efforts by organizing service opportunities and outreaches, creating a more significant impact than you could achieve alone. It's a place where you can use your gifts and talents to serve others, reflecting God's love and light in practical ways.

  5. Healthy Habits and Stability: Just as consistent exercise and healthy eating contribute to physical well-being, regular church attendance fosters spiritual health. It establishes a worship, learning, and fellowship rhythm, creating a solid foundation for a vibrant and meaningful spiritual life.

Taking the First Steps Back

Returning to church might feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be. Here are some practical steps to help you on your journey:

  1. Make it a Priority: Carve out time in your schedule for church. Commit to attending regularly for a set period, like a month, to experience the community and see if it's a good fit for you.

  2. Find Support: Invite a friend or family member to join you. Having someone to hold you accountable and share the experience with can make the process easier and more enjoyable.

  3. Explore New Churches: If past experiences have been hurtful, consider trying a new church. Every church has its own personality and culture, so explore different options to find one where you feel comfortable and supported.

  4. Get Involved: Connect with a ministry or small group that aligns with your interests. Serving others and building relationships deepen your connection to the church community.

  5. Focus on a Healthy Self-Image: Remember that God loves you unconditionally.

Coffee Creek Church: A Place to Belong

If you're looking for a church in the North OKC/Edmond/Deer Creek area, I highly encourage you to visit Coffee Creek Church. We offer a welcoming atmosphere, relevant teaching, and a variety of opportunities to connect and serve.

Let me know you’re coming and I’ll welcome you personally!

Remember...

Returning to church is a journey of rediscovery and renewal. It's about reconnecting with your faith, building community, and tangibly experiencing God's love and grace. Don't hesitate to take that first step back – you might be surprised by the blessings that await you.


Pastor Clark

Clark Frailey is the Lead Pastor of Coffee Creek Church. Clark received his BA in Religion from Oklahoma Baptist University and his Masters of Divinity from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He has pursued doctoral studies at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

After becoming a Christian in high-school, Clark entered full time ministry in 2000. He has pastored churches across Texas and Oklahoma.

In 2009, Clark and his family moved to Edmond, OK to help re-start Coffee Creek Church – an innovative church with a desire to reach the unchurched and dechurched in the heart of Oklahoma.

Since its re-start, Coffee Creek Church has grown from 27 people to over 250 regular attendees and many more being cared for throughout groups and ministries of the church in the community.

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