Creating a Space for Connection: The Power of Invitation

Who doesn’t love a fresh donut? This morning, as I looked around, I saw smiles on faces, and hands raised in joy. Isn’t it fascinating how something as simple as a donut can create excitement? It reminds me of a story that perfectly illustrates the connection between our church community and the joy of hospitality.

The Donut Connection

Let me take you back to a night when we had a special event here at Coffee Creek Church. A family came in, and it was rare for us to host events midweek. As usual, the kids were buzzing with energy, and one little boy sprinted in, high-fiving everyone on his way to the donut table. But here’s the twist: there were no donuts!

His face fell as he realized his much-anticipated treat was absent. You could see the sheer disappointment wash over him. It was like witnessing a mini moral crisis—should I lie and say they’re on their way? Or face the truth? I chose honesty, and that moment stuck with me. It’s funny how something like a donut can symbolize what draws us to a place, isn’t it?

Expectations vs. Reality

Reflecting on my own experiences, I remember bringing my son to this church for the first time. He was expecting the bounce house from a previous event, not a 35-minute lecture! It’s a powerful reminder that sometimes, what draws us in isn’t what keeps us.

Think about it: car dealerships with their hot dog days or banks that used to offer fresh popcorn. We don’t visit them for the snacks, but they create an environment that feels welcoming. It’s not just about the donuts or the bounce house; it’s about connection.

Removing Stumbling Blocks

As people come into our church, they might have preconceived notions based on their past experiences. I’ve heard it all—from complaints about the pastor's attire to the smell of the bathrooms. It’s wild how minor details can become stumbling blocks for people. That’s why we’ve worked diligently to scrutinize every aspect we can control, ensuring there are no distractions.

It’s not about fixing everything; it’s about creating an environment where people can connect with God. We aim not for applause for our donuts or my teaching but for genuine encounters with the Divine.

Inviting Others In

Now, let's address an important issue: many people in our lives feel disconnected from God. This isn’t just a few individuals; it’s a widespread phenomenon here in America. The disconnect is unprecedented, and we must adapt to connect with those who feel lost.

Think about your friends, family, classmates, and neighbors. They are all searching for something. But here’s the second problem: many of us feel ill-equipped to invite them. We might think we need to know everything or have the perfect argument ready, but that’s not true.

Shifting Perspectives

In the past, evangelists tried to guilt people into making decisions in a short time. But we now realize that approach isn’t effective. We’re not called to be convictors; that’s the Holy Spirit’s job. Our role is to be hospitable and inviting.

There’s a beautiful parable in Luke 14 about a great banquet. It illustrates how many were invited but made excuses. One bought a field, another oxen, and the last had just married. Each excuse points to how consumed people can become with their lives, missing out on the invitation to something greater.

The Invitation Continues

Despite the rejections, the master in the parable didn’t give up. He sent his servant out again, inviting the poor, the crippled, and the blind. There’s still room for more! This story reminds us not to lose heart when our invitations are turned down.

In our own lives, how often do we hesitate to invite someone because we fear rejection? Remember the viral story of the grandma who accidentally texted a stranger about Thanksgiving dinner? Instead of shutting down, she welcomed him, and they ended up forming a lasting bond. This is radical hospitality!

Compelling Invitations

When we invite others, we must do so confidently. Think back to those awkward early dating days—how we struggled to ask someone out. But inviting someone to church shouldn’t feel that way! It’s about offering them a chance for connection, not a burden.

It’s not about how cool the preacher is or how great the coffee is. It’s about introducing them to a relationship with God. We can make that simple invitation: “Come sit with me.”

The Role of Ambassadors

In 2 Corinthians, Paul tells us we are Christ’s ambassadors. God is making His appeal through us. This is our mission! It’s not just about what we do; it’s about who we are in Christ. We are here to plead with others to return to God.

We must embrace the unique role we have as the church. We can feed people, pray for them, and support them, but our primary calling is to invite them back to God. It’s a beautiful responsibility.

Think About Those Seats

As we approach Easter, I want you to think about the empty seats around you. Who could fill those seats? Easter is an easy cultural conversation starter, and it’s the perfect opportunity to invite someone to join you.

We have fun activities planned, from Easter egg hunts to delicious donuts. But remember, the core reason for the invitation is to provide others with the chance to connect with God. It starts with a simple invite.

Compelling Others to Come

Jesus said to compel others to come in. What does that mean? It’s about creating irresistible invitations. Whether it’s offering to sit together or treating them to lunch afterward, it’s about making them feel comfortable and welcomed.

We want them to experience God’s goodness for themselves. Just like with any restaurant recommendation, it’s not enough to tell others about it; they need to experience it firsthand.

The Adventure Awaits

As we wrap up, remember that the journey of faith is just that—a journey. It starts small, just like in video games where you begin with basic skills and gradually unlock new levels. Similarly, your simple invitation could unlock a profound transformation in someone’s life.

Don’t underestimate the power of your invitation. You may feel humble or ill-equipped, but you hold the key to someone’s connection with God. So let’s step out, invite boldly, and create space for others at the table. The kingdom of God is here, and it’s open for all!